{"id":1715,"date":"2020-03-25T04:13:21","date_gmt":"2020-03-25T04:13:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.italianoconulgen.com\/?p=1715"},"modified":"2020-03-25T12:33:31","modified_gmt":"2020-03-25T12:33:31","slug":"mamma-mia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.italianoconulgen.com\/index.php\/2020\/03\/25\/mamma-mia\/","title":{"rendered":"Mamma mia"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Annem, anam ve ayn\u0131 zamanda aman, aman\u0131n, aman Tanr\u0131m anlam\u0131nda \u0130talyanlar\u0131n \u00e7ok s\u0131k kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u00fcnlem!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bu \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131k, hayret, sevin\u00e7, korku, tepki belirten \u00fcnlemin ‘anne’ <\/em>ile ili\u015fkilendirilmesi olduk\u00e7a manidar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D\u00fcnk\u00fc videoda kahve i\u00e7mek i\u00e7in d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmakta direten babas\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 m\u00fccadele eden k\u0131z\u0131n yakar\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 ge\u00e7en hafta da ben yapt\u0131m anneme. Biz de \u00f6yle sakin ba\u015flad\u0131k ama ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde y\u00fckselttik sesimizin perdesini, sertle\u015ftirdik ses tonumuzu, devirdik g\u00f6zlerimizi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ama bizim nesil, anneden gelen ters (yani \u00e7ok sert) bir bak\u0131\u015fla hizaya gelir hemen. Bu nedenle \u00e7ok s\u00fcrmedi sessizle\u015fip boyun e\u011fmem. Bak\u0131\u015fa raz\u0131y\u0131z, terlik gelmesin de!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Size de a\u015fina gelecektir mutlaka, d\u0131\u015far\u0131ya \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131nlar diye anne babaya ya da \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za dil d\u00f6k\u00fcp y\u00fcre\u011finizi t\u00fcketmi\u015fsinizdir bu g\u00fcnlerde diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. Ya da bu yakar\u0131\u015flar size yap\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r gen\u00e7ler<\/em> ve her g\u00fcn blogumu okudu\u011funuzu duydu\u011fumda \u00e7ok sevindi\u011fim, bu g\u00fcnler bitince tan\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 umdu\u011fum tatl\u0131 Deren’in tatl\u0131 anneannesi! <\/em> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Annem bir haftad\u0131r \u00e7\u0131km\u0131yordu evden ve zaten gayet de sever evde oturmay\u0131. Alt\u0131 \u00fcst\u00fc <\/em>on dakikal\u0131k y\u00fcr\u00fcme mesafesinde oturan teyzeme gitmek istiyordu ve hepi topu<\/em> d\u00f6rt veya be\u015f ki\u015fi olacaklard\u0131. Ama beni paranoya sarm\u0131\u015ft\u0131 bir kere, gitmesine mani olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m var g\u00fcc\u00fcmle. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bakt\u0131m bana kulak asm\u0131yor, gizlice ablam\u0131 devreye soktum \u0130stanbul’dan. “Sen ara bir annemi, \u00e7\u0131km\u0131yorsun evden de\u011fil mi diye sor. O s\u00f6yleyecektir bug\u00fcn \u00e7\u0131kaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131. Sen tembihle kesinlikle \u00e7\u0131kmamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini”. Ve rahatlad\u0131m \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ablam\u0131n kredibilitesi y\u00fcksektir, tavr\u0131 sert ve zaten kendisi de doktor. Yasland\u0131m arkama, y\u00fcz\u00fcmde sinsi bir tebess\u00fcm. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ana m\u0131 yaman k\u0131z m\u0131 yaman!<\/em> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maalesef bu kurnaz giri\u015fimim de ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z oldu. Ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131z ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131z ne olursa olsun, anneler seni ben b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fcm, benden daha m\u0131 iyi bileceksin<\/em> tavr\u0131yla pek sallamaz \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 ve bizimki de susturup yerimize oturttu bizi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u0131l\u0131z bir sesle, “Madem kendinizi g\u00f6zden \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131n\u0131z, bizi yakmay\u0131n ama” diyerek son kozumu kullanmak istedim. Anneler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n k\u0131l\u0131na zarar gelsin istemez diye bilirdim ama duymad\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bari teyzem iptal etsin bu oturumu diye ola\u011fan\u00fcst\u00fc telekonferans yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u00e7aresiz kalm\u0131\u015f kuzenim, “Bence de \u00e7ok sak\u0131ncal\u0131 ama bir taraf\u0131m da olas\u0131 bir soka\u011fa \u00e7\u0131kma yasa\u011f\u0131 \u00f6ncesinde son bir topla\u015fsalar diyor, biliyorum cahilce” deyince ona hak verdim, benim de bir taraf\u0131m \u00f6yle demeye ba\u015flad\u0131. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yine de tedbiri elden b\u0131rakmad\u0131m tabii! Maske, eldiven, kolonya ve antibakteriyel el jelinden olu\u015fan bir hijyen kiti ile u\u011furlad\u0131m, arkas\u0131ndan su d\u00f6kt\u00fcm. Haz\u0131r yerler suluyken biraz da deterjan d\u00f6k\u00fcp yerleri tekrar sildim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yakla\u015f\u0131k d\u00f6rt saat s\u00fcren yemekli oturumdan d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde sesinde nihayet sosyalle\u015fmi\u015f olman\u0131n t\u0131n\u0131s\u0131 vard\u0131. Bende ise yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n dayan\u0131lmaz a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00dc\u00e7 g\u00fcn sonra soka\u011fa \u00e7\u0131kma yasa\u011f\u0131 kondu. \u0130yi ki izin vermi\u015fim, pardon iyi ki bizi dinlememi\u015f. Hep birbiriyle \u00e7eli\u015fen iki taraf\u0131m\u0131z var ya, \u015fimdi de bir taraf\u0131m \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcyor, bir taraf\u0131m seviniyor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Risk grubuna yak\u0131n <\/em>biz \u00e7ocuklar kurtulduk risk grubundaki anne babalar\u0131 sokaktan uzak <\/em>tutmak i\u00e7in verdi\u011fimiz, epey bir enerji gerektiren bu zorlu m\u00fccadeleden. Hay\u0131r m\u00fccadeleden y\u0131lmam da, o esnada ba\u011f\u0131\u015f\u0131kl\u0131k sistemim<\/em> zay\u0131flayacak diye t\u0131rs\u0131yorum!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anneme can\u0131m feda ama can\u0131m\u0131 bu \u015fekilde feda etmek<\/em>, ona veda<\/em> etmek <\/em>istemiyorum! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Not: <\/strong> Bu yaz\u0131, annem okumadan kendini imha edecek bir s\u00fcre sonra, \u00e7abuk okuyun diyece\u011fim ama zaten bu sat\u0131ra geldiyseniz okudunuz demektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anlatt\u0131klar\u0131mda m\u00fcbala\u011fa ve hiciv sanatlar\u0131 var tabii biraz!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Annem, anam ve ayn\u0131 zamanda aman, aman\u0131n, aman Tanr\u0131m anlam\u0131nda \u0130talyanlar\u0131n \u00e7ok s\u0131k kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u00fcnlem! Bu \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131k, hayret, sevin\u00e7, korku, tepki belirten \u00fcnlemin ‘anne’ ile ili\u015fkilendirilmesi olduk\u00e7a manidar. D\u00fcnk\u00fc videoda kahve i\u00e7mek i\u00e7in d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmakta direten babas\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 m\u00fccadele eden k\u0131z\u0131n yakar\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 ge\u00e7en hafta da ben yapt\u0131m anneme. Biz de \u00f6yle sakin ba\u015flad\u0131k ama … Okumaya devam et Mamma mia<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[9],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.italianoconulgen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1715"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.italianoconulgen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.italianoconulgen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.italianoconulgen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.italianoconulgen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1715"}],"version-history":[{"count":37,"href":"http:\/\/www.italianoconulgen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1715\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1884,"href":"http:\/\/www.italianoconulgen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1715\/revisions\/1884"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.italianoconulgen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1715"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.italianoconulgen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1715"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.italianoconulgen.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1715"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}